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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

September - We Have a Helper and a Smiler :)

Over the September 1st weekend, we made our first big outing with our new little man.  Ethan stayed home to play with Emily and we ventured to the Milwaukee area for one of Mike's co-worker's weddings.  Brady was great, he slept through the majority of the event and planned his eating times for non-busy times (apart from the middle of dinner).
One of our favorite parts of early fall weather is going to the cottage, relaxing, and sitting by a nice warm campfire!  Ethan and Lainey especially loved the s'mores this year.  This was an extra special cottage night because the McCarthys were there to hang out with us.  Ethan of course loved all the extra attention - especially from Erin and John!

As Brady gets a little older, Ethan has been trying to help us out more and more.  Here he is trying to help bathe Brady - who, by the way, still hates his baths!

On one of the warmest days of September, we went to my dad's house for a cook out and Uncle Aaron was able to spend some quality time with the boys.  He hasn't held too many babies so holding Brady was an extra special moment :)
The other two kids playing at grandpa's house.  Kileigh is one CRAZY driver!
Although Brady is starting to wake up a bit more, he still spends a lot of time sleeping.  It is amazing how much he can sleep through anything and in any position!  One thing we have noticed that is completely different than Ethan is that Brady likes to sleep with his arms straight up.  Ethan always needed to be swaddled.
Although Ethan isn't usually much of a sleeper, this month we had the misfortune of having a bout of the flu run through the house.  Ethan spent the better part of about 12 hours keeled over a trash can - poor peanut!  Although he felt pretty crummy for that night and into the next day, it didn't take very long to bounce back to his normal self.
One of the latest toys Mike introduced to Ethan is this Nerf gun!  Ethan is having a ton of fun playing with this toy outside. 

And he thinks he is super funny trying to shoot us!
He really thinks he is pretty funny a lot of the time (and he is).  Here he is being a "baby."
Being a "baby" with Brady.
Along with helping a lot with Brady, Ethan is also really into helping Mike and I now.  He mostly helps me with cooking and cleaning up the house.  He puts measured ingredients into a bowl, stirs, throws clothes down the chute, and picks up in general. 
On September 11th, we remembered the passing of Mike's dad 4 years ago.  We sure do miss him!  I think we can see a little of him in each of the children.  Right now his sense of humor is coming across loud and clear in Ethan!
Another part of fall that we love is FOOTBALL!!  This year we have started to celebrate football season in a new but old way, going to Milton High School football games.  It's fun taking the boys there since it was one of the first places I think of when I think about the beginnings of Mike and I.  We were high school seniors at a football game when he offered to share his coat with me :).  This game was extra special because it was also Brady's first bottle!!  At 5 weeks old, he took it like a champ!

The kids loved cheering on the home team.  Ethan was mocking everything a guy above us was saying.  He also mocked everything the announcer said.
Ethan also loved the dancing, of course!
The next morning we met up with my mom and Kileigh for some coffee.  Kileigh and Ethan both took a turn at feeding Brady a bottle.
Our attempt at a "sitting" shot.
Ethan doing what he loves, dancing and dressing up!
Just another day at the cottage. Ethan sure loves his babies!

Sweet boy :)
On the weekend of September 22nd, we met up with my dad, Kileigh, and Courtney at a hotel in town to have some swimming fun!  Ethan loved "swimming" with Mike and had absolutely no fear of putting his face under the water!



Another thing we started this month with the cold weather coming in is making Ethan some "special coffee" or hot chocolate.  He loves it!  He is always wanting to have some of our coffee in the morning so this way, he can!
My sweet boys!
Possibly the biggest thing that happened this month is the starts of Brady's smiling!  At 6 weeks old he started smiling and it took a few days to finally catch one on the camera.  It sure does make our hearts melt!

Ethan has become quite the technology pro.  He can completely work my Nook without any help at all.  He loves Angry Birds games and also likes to do the puzzles and reading games.
The last weekend in September we went to another Milton football game.  Before we went to the game we went to the Redzone to eat and saw Carol!  Ethan loved sitting and chatting with her and the rest of the table before the meal came.  He loves any time he can talk to a table full of adults who laugh at him and all his silly jokes.
Mike's mom met us at the game and even got some precious Ethan snuggle time during the half time show.
Ethan again showed his helping skills when it came to yardwork.  There was a lot of raking to do this month and he was definitely up for the challenge.  He did his best, sweeping the leaves and raking the sidewalk :)
He also tried to help Mike mow.  After watching Mike start the mower one time Ethan duplicated all of the same steps.  Ethan has a crazy memory!
Although bagging leaves is pretty fun...
playing in them is WAY better!
As time goes on Brady is really starting to pay attention to people and their voices.  We get lots of stares and smiles these days!
Brady's 1 Month Appointment:
Weight: 10 lbs 4.8 oz (52nd percentile)
Length: 21.5 inches (39th percentile)
Head: 37.6 cm (52nd percentile)

Some things we have noticed in the first 6 weeks:

1. Brady is very gassy!  At first we thought he maybe had some reflux but through process of elimination have figured out he has gas pains.  With some gas drops when he has issues he is like a whole new baby.

2. Brady is quite sensitive to motion.  If you go down the stairs too quickly or bend down to pick something up while holding him or even switch his position too quickly, he is sure to let you know!

3. He is a cuddler!  How can I get so lucky??  Two babies who like to cuddle :)

4.  His skin is much more sensitive than the typical baby.  We have had to eliminate all scented laundry detergent and softener and we have to make our own wipes or his skin gets red and irritated.

5.  He is a hungry boy!  He likes to eat every 2-3 hours around the clock.  Luckily, he has his nights figured out so he eats and goes right back to sleep.

6.  I am a bit naughtier this time.  Brady slept with me for about the first 8 weeks.

7.  I always worried that I wouldn't be able to love the second baby the way I love Ethan, good news is, I can :)

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

First Few Weeks At Home (Through the rest of August)

Although August is usually known for heat, the first few days after taking Brady home, it was not very nice outside.  It figures that when we go to bring a new baby home it has to be in the 50's instead of the nice 70's and 80's from before.  So, at 24 hours old we all bundled up and headed home...
 
Well, kind of home.  We went to the cottage to celebrate the August birthdays (Kel, Chad, and Mike's uncle, Tom).  Although some thought we were crazy, I was feeling pretty well and Brady was eating pretty well, so, why not?
 
Ethan and Lainey even found a new friend, a little frog that would camouflage himself with his background (tan or green).  At first Ethan was a bit apprehensive...

 

 
And a bit afraid...
 But soon tried to hold him!
The next morning, Brady needed a bath.  Ethan was eager to help.  He squeezed water on Brady to keep him nice and toasty warm.
Like when any baby is born, we had lots of visitors in the first few weeks. Everyone wanted to hold our sweet Brady, when he wasn't eating that is!  I'm pretty sure Kileigh was the biggest fan.  One morning she knew she was coming over and Courtney had a hard time getting her to sleep after four in the morning because she wanted to come hold Brady!
After all the company left, we did our best to spend lots of quality family time either playing, sleeping, our just hanging out watching a movie.  Ethan really enjoyed snuggling with his new brother!
 So did daddy :)

During the day we had lots of fun playing soccer.  Ethan is getting really good at dribbling and has lots of rules for how we play.  We have to make certain noises (hut-hut-hut) as we dribble and we also have certain balls we can and cannot use. Mary, Emily, and Jeff from across the street have even been working on their soccer skills with Coach Ethan!

After the first few days, we even started to see Brady's sweet eyes start to open a bit more!  Everyone says he looks just like Ethan.  At this point we can see the resemblance but also think they look pretty different in some ways.  Brady has mohawk hair (Dad even calls him Hawk as a nickname) and is quite a bit darker than Ethan was.  We are thinking he might have brown eyes.
One thing we have been very thankful for is the love Ethan shows toward Brady.  He loves holding him and talking with him.  It is amazing to listen to Ethan with Brady, he definitely listens to everything we say!  We hear lots of, "I know Brady, it's ok."  If he feels any sort of jealousy toward Brady, we sure aren't seeing it!  It has been helpful, though, to have Mike home for the first few weeks.  That way, both of us can make sure Ethan is also getting plenty of attention.  Hopefully that is making the transition easier for him.
 The boys "shaving" one morning.  Ethan loves to be like his daddy.
 When Carol came to visit, Ethan got this awesome new tool belt.  He loves it and obviously thinks he is pretty cool with it on too!
 Late in August, while Brady and I hung out at home, Mike and Ethan went to a Parker High School soccer game so Mike could watch the team he helped coach last year play. He even got to practice with the team before the big game!
While the game was in session, Ethan took to doing what he does best, hitting on the ladies!  He went around to each group of girls, introduced himself, said "nice to meet you," asked their names, and then proceeded to show them his cool new shoes.  What a ham!

After a couple of weeks, when Brady's umbilical cord stump fell off, the boys jumped in the tub for a group bath.  I wish I could say Brady loved it but, he HATED it!  He pretty much doesn't like any part of nakedness at this point.  He cries during diaper changes, clothing changes, and now, baths!
Ethan continues to be a loving big brother.  He is always concerned when Brady cries and still loves to hold him every day.
More outdoor fun with Emily, let's shoot mom!
Take 2 at bath time...still not a fan, but better!
The dino boys one night, as you can see, Ethan is pretty proud of their matching dino jammies!
Big brother talking sweetly to Brady :)
The boys
One day when Ethan and I were out exploring, we found this sweet little toad.  As you might remember, we had our tadpoles that grew into little toads and once they got a little bigger we released 3 or 4 of them.  I think this might be one of them :)
Brady is loving the nice weather and sleeps super well lounging on his blanket :)